After God's own heart, I have to feel like God and think how will he do when things just ain't going well. 1 Samuel 13:13 ' Love people the same way God loves people and hate sin the same way God hates sin.'
This really put us to the test when we have to deny ourselves and do the unthinkable thing which wordly people will doubt us of being capable to achieve it.
The thing that really catches my heart is to love people until it hurts cause in that way, I will connect with God better. We don't connect at times because we think it's painful but we have to because God is like this to us. He has been hurt in many ways yet he still love us unconditionally. So we got to change our mindset about fellowship. Fellowship is essential. Think about it as ' This is the time to build an awesome friendship'.
Stop holding on to things we cannot change,
but adapt to what we have and can change.