Yesterday had Psychology lecture which was kinda interesting, we learn how to identify what kind of lover are we and the attachment we had with our mum when we are young. The secure lover(think highly or yourself and your gf/bf, give each other freedom to explore), resistant lover (desperate for love to feel worthy as a person, and at the same time worrying about abandonment. Think highly of your partner and not yourself, afraid that your bf/gf might leave you), Dismissing lover (think that your are better than your lover, and think he or she is not good enough. Will manipulate the another person) and fearful lover (Need relationships but doubt own worth and fear intimacy. Thinks that he/she and their lover are equally lousy) ..I guess I'm don't even know what kind of lover am I.